Nearly anything you can do to a woman with your hands will feel better if you do it with your mouth! Use these 11 hot spots to arouse her instantly. The slightest kiss on the right spot can send shivers down her spine, give her chills or goosebumps, or make her body shake with delight. Some women can even achieve orgasm from being kissed in the right place, even with no contact with her genitals!
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While certain bits of anatomy ahem, genitalia are well-known as sites of sexual pleasure, getting turned on doesn't have to be limited to below the belt. Other areas of the human body have a high concentration of nerve endings, so they're particularly sensitive to touch, pressure, or vibration. These so-called " erogenous zones " can contribute to sexual arousal—think of them as the road map to a happy ending. According to Monica Geller of Friends , there are seven erogenous zones on a woman's body , but the exact list for any gender remains up to speculation. Still, while everyone is a little different when it comes to getting turned on, people generally agree about which erogenous zones are most pleasurable. The human body's erogenous zones might seem like a topic worthy of a Cosmo article, but this information matters for several reasons. Knowing these "hot spots" is a plus for both your partner and yourself—who would say no to a boost in sexual satisfaction? Identifying different erogenous zones also may improve sexual health; some research suggests that stimulating different spots may produce different reactions in the body.
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Helena Lorimer March 6, Users currently reading: 2. This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. But why is touching so important? Because the more time, effort and expertise you put into touching her the way she likes, the better arousal she will achieve! So, put your thinking cap on and get ready to learn all about her erogenous zones, aka: the spots that cause her immense satisfaction and sexual stimulation. Take notes, copy and paste it, print it out — heck, you can even tape it to your wall if you have to!
Here are some unlikely pleasure points that are often overlooked. The scalp is full of nerve endings, and even the slightest brush of the hair can send tingles through your body. To amp up the pleasure, run your fingernails lightly over the scalp, paying special attention to the space behind the ears and just above the neck. With sensitive skin on the outside and hundreds of sensory receptors on the inside, the ears top the list of erogenous zones for many people. You can also take advantage of those sensory receptors by whispering or lightly blowing into their ear for more tingly feels. Use your tongue, fingertips, or even a feather to trace circles around the navel and tease your way down and all around the stomach. It could have something to do with the fact that the nerves in this portion of the spine are connected to the pelvis or the vulnerability factor of being touched from behind that makes this area so sensitive. Whatever it is, the slightest touch here can evoke pleasure. Tickle the area with a feather or your lips and tongue. A light touch is all you need to turn the tickle to totally titillating.
