Peeing during sex is a very common concern. As many as 60 percent of women who have some level of general incontinence experience leakage during sex. Instead they may be experiencing female ejaculation during orgasm. Regarding female ejaculation, what the fluid actually does has been debated. During sexual activity, some women experience an expelling of fluid at orgasm. Some researchers claim only urine is expelled. This may also serve to moisten both the urethra and the tissue surrounding the vagina. The tissue surrounding the paraurethral glands is connected to the vagina and clitoris , and these glands can be stimulated through the vagina. Urination during sex is very often due to incontinence.
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In a culture that seems to be filled with TMI, female ejaculation remains one of the few taboo topics many women are reluctant to openly discuss. After all, incorrect stereotypes seem to insinuate that men are supposed to come powerfully with an actual, literal release, and women are supposed to orgasm with quiet reserve, leaving no evidence or trace of the pleasure their bodies experienced. But that's bullshit. Women can ejaculate. Here are the basic facts: Female ejaculation is the expulsion of fluid by the periurethral glands through and around the human female urethra during or before an orgasm, says Dr. You may have also heard it being referred to as squirting or gushing, although Walfish says some researchers think ejaculation is a "scanty, thick, white-ish fluid," while gushing is totally different and refers to the expulsion of clear fluid the latter has been fetishized in pornos. The exact source and nature of the fluid continues to be a topic of debate among medical professionals, and it's no surprise that it's also related to doubts over the existence of the G-spot , Walfish says. Bottom line: Women's bodies are capable of such extraordinary things that even science doesn't know what to make of us yet. Little research has been dedicated to female ejaculation, says Dr.
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The first time I saw squirting, I didn't really know what I was looking at. The squirter was named Cytherea, an adult actress who had become synonymous with an ability to ejaculate large volumes of fluid—that was supposedly not pee—during sex acts. So rare was this talent that a interview with Adult Video News described her as having a "one-of-a-kind sexual gift. Within months, scores of other adult performers were suddenly able to squirt prodigiously, forcefully, and seemingly on cue. And before too long, I had a date with a woman who requested that we put a towel or two down on my bed before things got underway. Her self-description seemed to back up the idea that there were a small minority of women who ejaculated and the overwhelming majority who didn't.
This week it came to light that when Lena Dunham was 7 years old, she looked at her little sister's vagina, and an alarming number of people have dubbed her a "child molester. I'm shaking my head in disbelief as I write because I can't believe that such innocuous things have become the subject of so much vitriol. If I had a penny for all of the sexual organs I looked at as a child, I'd be rich.
